Let's
face it: dating is always complicated. To meet someone, take that person to
dinner or something; to make a commitment…this kind of thing get many
people very nervous before a simple date. And if even grown ups feel this
way, what's to say about teenagers?
Statistics
shows that more than 1 out of 10 teenagers (12 percent) are in a relationship
with someone they have been dating for more than a year. Of course, they had
to walk a long way to get there. But, once you find a nice partner, there
are still a lot of things that can get in the way. In fact, being teenagers,
they are much more insecure and less confident than adults. And that's okay,
because they are just starting to discover their bodies, and to know what
they really want. But can a teenager, in the middle of all that, keep a long
relationship, dealing with things like commitment, sex, hormones and much
more?
All
right, they are getting more and more precocious. But that doesn't mean they
know everything, or at least enough. The truth is that dating becomes a very
essential part of a teenager's social life. It gives them confidence, and
if this part of their lives can't be developed, it sticks with them for a
long time. It's important that teens pass through this course without hurry,
and enjoying it. Nonetheless, problems are many that could get in the way,
so it's good if they can get some support when needed.
Besides
the parent's advices and support, there are plenty of teen magazines that
always give some tips about dating. Plus, with the advent of internet, the
options multiplied, and there are lots of web pages where they can get help.
But, as usual, they have to be careful: not always, the tips are for real
- some contradict others, and they can get confused in the midst of information.
The right thing to do is to filter information, but they are only teenagers,
they haven't grown up enough to separate things - it just becomes part of
their learning.
Teenage
dating is an amazing part of life, so the best to do is to enjoy it. In spite
of all tips and advices, there are no rules to be followed. These things are
just for help, for directions, they serve more as support than rules. The
fact is that only discovering by himself what he likes and what he could do;
he will be ready to face all the dating consequences and benefits. The more
a teenage knows what he wants, the less he let things get in the way. And
that's all that matters. |